﻿{"id":8116,"date":"2023-10-02T10:48:08","date_gmt":"2023-10-02T08:48:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/?page_id=8116"},"modified":"2025-05-16T23:17:35","modified_gmt":"2025-05-16T21:17:35","slug":"a-na-moju-mensinu-kedy-dojde","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/?page_id=8116","title":{"rendered":"A na moju men\u0161inu kedy d\u00f4jde?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_8115\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\" style=\"width: 300px\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/EM_spectrum_SK.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-8115\" src=\"http:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/EM_spectrum_SK-300x108.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"108\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/EM_spectrum_SK-300x108.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/EM_spectrum_SK.jpg 765w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Dnes je v\u0161ade vidie\u0165 d\u00fahu. Aj ona je v\u0161ak mo\u017eno len tak\u00fdm mali\u010dk\u00fdm k\u00faskom cel\u00e9ho spektra mo\u017enost\u00ed \u013eudskej osobnosti, ako tento ukazuje diagram. Zdroj: Philip Ronan, Baran Ivo<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Men\u0161iny to nemaj\u00fa \u013eahk\u00e9. Ve\u013ea \u013eud\u00ed z v\u00e4\u010d\u0161iny tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee by sa ich potrebami svet v\u00f4bec nemal zaobera\u0165, lebo s\u00fa men\u0161ina. Pr\u00edpadne svoju men\u0161inovos\u0165 len predstieraj\u00fa a v skuto\u010dnosti ani neexistuj\u00fa. Mnoho os\u00f4b m\u00e1 toti\u017e potrebu \u0161katu\u013ekova\u0165 si svet, zjednodu\u0161ova\u0165 ho a\u017e do absurdnej deform\u00e1cie, neveri\u0165 v em\u00f3cie, ktor\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/?page_id=4085\">pova\u017euj\u00fa za nespr\u00e1vne<\/a>. Tak\u00fdto pr\u00edstup odmietam. Na druhej strane, m\u00e1m v\u00f4bec n\u00e1dej, \u017ee na z\u00e1klade postupne, pomali\u010dky sa presadzuj\u00facich poznatkoch o men\u0161in\u00e1ch d\u00f4jde aj na moju men\u0161inu, men\u0161iu ne\u017e je men\u0161ina LGBT?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">LGBT plne re\u0161pektujem. Narodili sa tak. Nem\u00f4\u017eu za svoje em\u00f3cie. Pre nich s\u00fa prirodzen\u00e9. Pre m\u0148a s\u00fa prirodzen\u00e9 in\u00e9 em\u00f3cie, som ve\u013emi vyhraden\u00e1 heterosexu\u00e1lka. A mus\u00edm prizna\u0165, moja empatia je v re\u00e1lnom \u017eivote dos\u0165 mal\u00e1. Funguje ve\u013emi dobre len v liter\u00e1rnom svete (preto mi nerob\u00ed probl\u00e9m vc\u00edti\u0165 sa do <a href=\"https:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/?page_id=8016\">mojich mu\u017esk\u00fdch heterosexu\u00e1lnych post\u00e1v<\/a> a ich vz\u0165ahu k \u017een\u00e1m). Prizn\u00e1vam a ch\u00e1pem, \u017ee je to moja slabos\u0165, aj tak sa ale neviem ubr\u00e1ni\u0165 nepr\u00edjemn\u00e9mu pocitu pri poh\u013eade na homosexu\u00e1lny p\u00e1r prejavuj\u00faci si l\u00e1sku. Viem sa v\u0161ak vc\u00edti\u0165 do LGBT cez in\u00fa pom\u00f4cku. A tou je skuto\u010dnos\u0165, \u017ee i ja som vo viacer\u00fdch oh\u013eadoch men\u0161ina, ktorej em\u00f3ci\u00e1m nikto never\u00ed. Nikto never\u00ed, \u017ee s\u00fa \u00faprimn\u00e9 z (s)prost\u00e9ho d\u00f4vodu \u2013 \u201eja tak\u00e9 em\u00f3cie v t\u00fdchto situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch nem\u00e1m\u201c! A ke\u010f ja to c\u00edtim inak, pre\u010do by to nemohli c\u00edti\u0165 inak, aj ke\u010f in\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom, aj LGBT?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ver\u00edm aj v \u00faprimn\u00fa t\u00fa\u017ebu \u010dlenov komunity LGBT po die\u0165ati, hoci materinsk\u00e9 pudy som sama nikdy nemala. A preto ni\u010d nenahlod\u00e1 moje presved\u010denie, \u017ee by im pr\u00e1vo ma\u0165 die\u0165a malo by\u0165 poskytnut\u00e9. \u017de to nie je prirodzen\u00e9? Jasn\u00e9, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/?page_id=4858\">nosi\u0165 oble\u010denie,<\/a> \u010di mari\u0165 z\u00e1mery pr\u00edrody t\u00fdm, \u017ee sa neplodn\u00fdm heterosexu\u00e1lnym p\u00e1rom urob\u00ed umel\u00e9 oplodnenie, to u\u017e v poriadku je? Alebo umo\u017eni\u0165 neplodn\u00e9mu heterosexu\u00e1lnemu p\u00e1ru adoptova\u0165 si die\u0165a?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Aj LGBT by mali ma\u0165 mo\u017enos\u0165 adoptova\u0165 si die\u0165a. Viem, \u017ee na to spolo\u010dnos\u0165 na Slovensku e\u0161te nie je pripraven\u00e1, no v princ\u00edpe na tom nie je ni\u010d zl\u00e9. Necho\u010fte na m\u0148a s kecmi o mu\u017eskom a \u017eenskom vzore. Jednak to zav\u00e1\u0148a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/?page_id=7213\">genderov\u00fdmi stereotypmi, ktor\u00e9 tak celkom neplatia<\/a>, a potom&#8230; Ke\u010f m\u00e1 die\u0165a heterosexu\u00e1lny p\u00e1r a jeden z rodi\u010dov umrie, kde to die\u0165a zoberie vzor namiesto m\u0155tveho rodi\u010da? Spr\u00e1vne, zo vzdialenej\u0161ieho pr\u00edbuzenstva a \u013eud\u00ed naokolo. Deti homosexu\u00e1lnych p\u00e1rov by predsa ne\u017eili vo svete, kde existuje len jedno pohlavie! Ak\u00fd je rozdiel medzi die\u0165a\u0165om vychov\u00e1van\u00fdm dvoma lesbi\u010dkami a die\u0165a\u0165om slobodnej matky, ktorej \u010dasto chod\u00ed vypom\u00e1ha\u0165 babi\u010dka die\u0165a\u0165a?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Navy\u0161e, odmietan\u00edm mo\u017enosti adopcie LBGT p\u00e1rom ich tla\u010d\u00edte k nie\u010domu ve\u013emi krut\u00e9mu. Nutnosti urobi\u0165 si biologick\u00e9 die\u0165a. \u201ePodvies\u0165\u201c svojho milovan\u00e9ho partnera, zhnusene pretrpie\u0165 heterosexu\u00e1lny pohlavn\u00fd styk alebo styky, ak sa to nepodar\u00ed na prv\u00fd raz. Ak sa potom druh\u00fd biologick\u00fd rodi\u010d vzd\u00e1 die\u0165a\u0165a, LGBT p\u00e1r ho vychov\u00e1va. A toto pre\u010do zak\u00e1zan\u00e9 nie je?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ak naozaj existuj\u00fa nepopierate\u013en\u00e9 d\u00f4kazy o \u0161kodlivosti vychov\u00e1vania die\u0165a\u0165a homosexu\u00e1lnym p\u00e1rom, tak to teda zak\u00e1\u017eme. Ale viete, od \u010doho za\u010dnime? Z\u00e1kazom plodenia det\u00ed nevhodn\u00fdmi heterosexu\u00e1lnymi p\u00e1rmi. Je zn\u00e1my bezpo\u010det pr\u00edpadov, kedy v\u00fdchova die\u0165a po\u0161kodila psychicky ba a\u017e fyzicky, hoci rodi\u010dia boli heterosexu\u00e1lni. Neboli v\u0161ak psychicky v poriadku. Ke\u010f si sm\u00fa deti urobi\u0165 psychopatick\u00ed heterosexu\u00e1li, pre\u010do deti nechcete d\u00e1va\u0165 du\u0161evne zdrav\u00fdm homosexu\u00e1lom?<\/p>\n<h2>Po\u010fme ku kni\u017enej homosexualite<\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">OK, LGBT evidentne neupieram \u017eiadne pr\u00e1va. Prirodzene, ani na pr\u00e1vo objavova\u0165 sa v literat\u00fare. Je evidentn\u00e9, \u017ee v s\u00fa\u010dasnej dobe sa tam LGBT komunite ve\u013emi dar\u00ed, hoci e\u0161te pred sto rokmi nikto o postav\u00e1ch s inou orient\u00e1ciou ani nechyroval. Iba\u017ee&#8230; m\u00e1m ak\u00fdsi pocit, \u017ee s\u00fa\u010dasn\u00e1 literat\u00fara a v\u00f4bec kult\u00fara v\u0161eobecne sa sna\u017e\u00ed dohna\u0165 to, \u010do im po st\u00e1ro\u010dia upierala. A nerob\u00ed to pr\u00e1ve naj\u0161\u0165astnej\u0161\u00edm sp\u00f4sobom. Niektor\u00ed autori si \u0161tyri percent\u00e1 m\u00fdlia s jednou \u0161tvrtinou, to\u013eko ich post\u00e1v toti\u017e b\u00fdva LGBT. A my, vyhraden\u00ed heterosexu\u00e1li, s\u00edce ich vz\u0165ahy tolerujeme a re\u0161pektujeme, ale \u0165a\u017eko sa s t\u00fdmito postavami stoto\u017e\u0148ujeme. Autori to asi vedia a nehrotia to \u2013 fyzick\u00e9 prejavy l\u00e1sky medzi osobami rovnak\u00e9ho pohlavia neb\u00fdvaj\u00fa podrobne pop\u00edsan\u00e9. Ani o t\u00fdch citov\u00fdch sa n\u00e1m ale ne\u010d\u00edta v\u017edy \u00faplne pr\u00edjemne. Viem, vy, LGBT, ste to mali rovnako s heterosexu\u00e1lnymi vz\u0165ahmi. Vy ste doteraz trpeli a asi st\u00e1le trp\u00edte. Ve\u010f aj heterosexu\u00e1lnych vz\u0165ahov zostalo v dielkach st\u00e1le dos\u0165. No homosexu\u00e1lne prib\u00fadaj\u00fa&#8230; a \u010dastokr\u00e1t samo\u00fa\u010delne. Pre dej ve\u013eakr\u00e1t nem\u00e1 \u017eiadny zmysel, aby bola postava LGBT.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Pre rovnopr\u00e1vnos\u0165 mus\u00edm doda\u0165, \u017ee \u010dastokr\u00e1t nem\u00e1 \u017eiadny zmysel ani to, aby bola postava knihy heterosexu\u00e1lna. V star\u00fdch rom\u00e1noch ve\u013ea kni\u017en\u00fdch post\u00e1v nejav\u00ed \u017eiadnu sexu\u00e1lnu orient\u00e1ciu. A bolo to tak pre dej neraz lep\u0161ie. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/?page_id=2593\">O tom som p\u00edsala u\u017e d\u00e1vno<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Pr\u00e1ve uvedomenie si spolo\u010dnosti, \u017ee existuje aj LGBT komunita, v\u0161ak speje nielen k jej neust\u00e1lemu pods\u00favaniu v kult\u00fare, ale aj k vyhroteniu heterosexu\u00e1lnych vz\u0165ahov. Pre mno\u017estvo autorov je (mo\u017eno kv\u00f4li skryt\u00e9mu odporu k LGBT) d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 da\u0165 jasne najavo, \u017ee ich postava je heterosexu\u00e1lna \u2013 teraz, ke\u010f mnoh\u00fdm napad\u00e1 aj druh\u00e1 mo\u017enos\u0165. Preto \u00faplne bez s\u00favislosti s dejom neraz m\u00e1va svojou sexu\u00e1lnou orient\u00e1ciou nad hlavou ako vlajkou. Ani to sa mi v\u00f4bec nep\u00e1\u010di.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Prostredn\u00edctvom young adult rom\u00e1nov n\u00e1m autori navy\u0161e pods\u00favaj\u00fa bezv\u00fdhradn\u00e9 prijatie tejto komunity. Nejak\u00e1 fikt\u00edvna postava je LGBT a jeho rodina ani kamar\u00e1ti s t\u00fdm nemaj\u00fa ani najmen\u0161\u00ed probl\u00e9m. Maxim\u00e1lne s t\u00fdm m\u00e1 probl\u00e9m jej nepriate\u013e, ten je ale r\u00fdchlo spacifikovan\u00fd. Toto je s\u00edce pekn\u00e1 my\u0161lienka, ale rob\u00ed diela, kde s\u00fa LGBT v\u0161etci v\u0161etk\u00fdmi v pohode prij\u00edman\u00ed, ve\u013emi nerealistick\u00fdmi. Ono <a href=\"https:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/?page_id=8908\">young adult teenagersk\u00e9 postavy s\u00fa aj bez toho nerealistick\u00e9 a\u017e-a\u017e \u2013 napr\u00edklad na rozdiel od reality nikdy sprosto nenad\u00e1vaj\u00fa<\/a>. A teraz e\u0161te aj toto&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Viem, \u017ee vo\u010di LGBT to bude vyznieva\u0165 cynicky, ale \u010dudujem sa, \u017ee trh vydr\u017e\u00ed tak\u00e9to kni\u017eky v prospech men\u0161iny. Trh toti\u017e bol, bohu\u017eia\u013e, v\u017edy orientovan\u00fd na v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inu. Mo\u017eno aj preto som sa e\u0161te nestretla s rom\u00e1nom v\u00fdlu\u010dne o LGBT (update, stretla som sa, ale sa mi nep\u00e1\u010dil &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/?page_id=8984\">recenzia tu<\/a>), ale skoro v\u0161ade dnes m\u00e1me aj v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inov\u00fa, aj men\u0161inov\u00fa sexu\u00e1lnu orient\u00e1ciu. \u010co, opakujem, by samo osebe v\u00f4bec nebolo zl\u00e9. Som ve\u013ek\u00fd st\u00fapenec toho, aby pr\u00edbehy boli pestr\u00e9 a stavan\u00e9 tak, aby si v nich ka\u017ed\u00fd vedel n\u00e1js\u0165 \u201eto svoje\u201c. No takto bud\u00fa fungova\u0165 len vtedy, ak tam prvok ur\u010den\u00fd len nejakej skupine \u013eud\u00ed nebude ako p\u00e4s\u0165 na oko. Bez\u00fa\u010deln\u00fd, mimo s\u00favislosti s pr\u00edbehom, vyslovene len kv\u00f4li kv\u00f3tam. Lebo takto ten prvok m\u00f4\u017ee na\u0161tva\u0165 aj t\u00fdch, ktor\u00fdm je ur\u010den\u00fd \u2013 znova odkazujem na svoj nadurden\u00fd pr\u00edspevok <a href=\"https:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/?page_id=2593\">o zbyto\u010dn\u00fdch heterosexu\u00e1lnych vz\u0165ahoch<\/a>. A na toho, pre koho ur\u010den\u00fd nie je, m\u00f4\u017ee p\u00f4sobi\u0165 e\u0161te hor\u0161ie.<\/p>\n<h2>Kedy budete, pros\u00edm, p\u00edsa\u0165 o mne?<\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Predo\u0161l\u00fdm textom nechcem poveda\u0165 ani to, \u017ee kni\u017eky maj\u00fa serv\u00edrova\u0165 \u010ditate\u013eovi len to \u201ejeho\u201c. Kult\u00fara je vynikaj\u00faca na roz\u0161irovanie si obzorov. Aj emocion\u00e1lnych obzorov. Aj empatie. To bolo dokonca u\u017e aj potvrden\u00e9 v\u00fdskumami.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_8118\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\" style=\"width: 250px\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Ja-v-patnastich.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-8118\" src=\"http:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Ja-v-patnastich-250x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"250\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Ja-v-patnastich-250x300.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Ja-v-patnastich.jpg 673w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/a><p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Ja ako p\u00e4tn\u00e1s\u0165ro\u010dn\u00e1. S \u00faplne in\u00fdmi probl\u00e9mami ne\u017e s t\u00fdm, \u017ee nem\u00e1m chalana.<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u010co u\u017e ale nie je fajn je, ke\u010f sa \u010dlovek neust\u00e1le len obohacuje a nikdy sa nevr\u00e1ti k tomu, \u010d\u00edm je. Nepripomenie si to. Str\u00e1ca to, ak je slab\u0161ia osobnos\u0165, alebo zv\u00fdraz\u0148uje jeho osamelos\u0165, ak je silnej\u0161ou, no pritom spolo\u010denskou osobnos\u0165ou. Skr\u00e1tka a jasne, potrebujeme ob\u010das \u010d\u00edta\u0165 nielen o druh\u00fdch, ale aj o sebe. \u010c\u00edta\u0165 o postav\u00e1ch, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa n\u00e1m v jadre podobn\u00e9. Vidie\u0165 ich probl\u00e9my z inej strany a nabera\u0165 in\u0161pir\u00e1ciu alebo aspo\u0148 n\u00e1dej v rie\u0161enie vlastn\u00fdch probl\u00e9mov. Aj to je, mysl\u00edm, jeden z k\u013e\u00fa\u010dov\u00fdch d\u00f4vodov, pre\u010do s\u00fa osoby LGBT v kult\u00fare dnes tak roz\u0161\u00edren\u00e9. Nielen preto, aby ich in\u00ed spoznali, ale aj preto, aby si ob\u010das pre\u010d\u00edtali aj o sebe.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Kedy si v\u0161ak kone\u010dne pre\u010d\u00edtam o sebe aj ja?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Som odli\u0161n\u00e1 od kni\u017en\u00fdch stereotypov vo viacer\u00fdch oh\u013eadoch. Ke\u010f u\u017e ale rozober\u00e1me sexualitu, pozrime sa na t\u00fa moju. T\u00e1 toti\u017e v obdob\u00ed puberty u m\u0148a a pre m\u0148a neexistovala. Pozor, nebola som asexu\u00e1lka. Vedela som, \u017ee som heterosexu\u00e1lka. Platonicky som obdivovala pekn\u00e9 liter\u00e1rne milostn\u00e9 vz\u0165ahy a vedela som, \u017ee raz chcem za\u017ei\u0165 nie\u010do podobn\u00e9. Ale teraz nie. Ani o rok nie. Ani o dva&#8230; Vedela som, \u017ee raz t\u00e1 t\u00fa\u017eba pr\u00edde, ale bolo to v nedoh\u013eadne. V puberte ma toti\u017e tr\u00e1pili absol\u00fatne odli\u0161n\u00e9 probl\u00e9my. T\u00fa\u017eila som po silnom, hlbokom, \u010distom priate\u013estve a dobr\u00fdch vz\u0165ahoch v pr\u00edbuzenstve. Ak by ma niekto bol pozval na rande povedzme v \u0161estn\u00e1stich, pripadalo by mi to nechutn\u00e9 a \u00fachyln\u00e9. Som predsa e\u0161te die\u0165a, preboha!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Nikdy som sa za to nehanbila. Nepripad\u00e1m si ani nevyspel\u00e1, ani zaostal\u00e1. \u010co by na tom malo by\u0165 zl\u00e9? Kam sa pon\u00e1h\u013ea\u0165? Existuje iba jedin\u00fd rozumn\u00fd d\u00f4vod, pre\u010do je dobr\u00e9 za\u010da\u0165 so sexualitou skoro, a to zv\u00fd\u0161enie \u0161anc\u00ed na geneticky zdrav\u00fdch potomkov. Len\u017ee, \u00faprimne, kv\u00f4li de\u0165om v\u00e1s tieto t\u00e9my v puberte nezauj\u00edmali. Aj v\u0161etci na okol\u00ed do n\u00e1s hu\u010dali o antikoncepcii, aby mo\u017enos\u0165 tejto jedinej v\u00fdhody \u00faplne za\u017eehnali. Ja som v\u0161ak beztak u\u017e od za\u010diatku puberty vedela, \u017ee deti nikdy nebudem chcie\u0165, tak\u017ee nezostal absol\u00fatne nijak\u00fd d\u00f4vod sa niekam hna\u0165.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Toto moje ojedinel\u00e9 stanovisko mi prinieslo aj jedno pozit\u00edvum \u2013 lep\u0161ie vc\u00edtenie sa do <a href=\"https:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/?page_id=4684\">Davida Settlea<\/a>, ktor\u00e9ho rast a v\u00fdvin bol tie\u017e spomalen\u00fd. Prirodzene, ja nie som spomalen\u00e1 a\u017e na polovicu ako David, napriek tomu bol jedn\u00fdm z pr\u00edkladov post\u00e1v, o ktor\u00fdch som v\u017edy t\u00fa\u017eila \u010d\u00edta\u0165. A kde s\u00fa tie ostatn\u00e9 postavy, v\u00e1\u017een\u00ed tie\u017e autori?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Bolo by s\u00edce b\u00fdvalo pre m\u0148a nesporne lep\u0161ie, keby to v\u0161etci mali rovnako ako ja, ale akceptujem, \u017ee v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina to m\u00e1 inak. Pokojne som zniesla, ke\u010f v kni\u017ek\u00e1ch randili \u0161estn\u00e1s\u0165ro\u010dn\u00ed. Zniesla som to raz, dvakr\u00e1t&#8230; stokr\u00e1t. No postupne to vo mne za\u010d\u00ednalo bubla\u0165. To naozaj musia randi\u0165 v\u0161etci, absol\u00fatne v\u0161etci kni\u017en\u00ed \u0161es\u0165n\u00e1s\u0165ro\u010dn\u00ed, nanajv\u00fd\u0161 sedemn\u00e1s\u0165ro\u010dn\u00ed? \u010ci dokonca e\u0161te mlad\u0161\u00ed? To nem\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 ani jedna, jedin\u00e1 postava ako ja? A ak n\u00e1hodou aj je, ak nem\u00e1 o tieto veci v tomto veku z\u00e1ujem sama od seba (napr\u00edklad Katniss na za\u010diatku <a href=\"https:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/?page_id=356\">Hier o \u017eivot<\/a> \u010di Jon Snow v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/?page_id=1527\">Piesni \u013eadu a oh\u0148a<\/a>), autori takejto postave \u00faplne v\u017edy podstr\u010dia niekoho, kto v nej s\u00fastavn\u00fdm zv\u00e1dzan\u00edm tieto z\u00e1ujmy prebud\u00ed. Je to ale len \u010fal\u0161\u00ed prejav kni\u017enej fikcie. V skuto\u010dnom svete chlapci a nesk\u00f4r mu\u017ei, naopak, robili v\u0161etko pre to, aby ma od seba odpudili.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">A ke\u010f ob\u010das, naozaj ve\u013emi preve\u013emi zriedkavo, n\u00e1jdem postavu, ktor\u00e1 ani vo vy\u0161\u0161om veku nerand\u00ed, hr\u00f4za. Skoro v\u017edy je z nej z\u00e1por\u00e1k! Zlo\u010dinec! Netu\u0161\u00edm, akou \u201elogikou\u201c sa tak\u00edto autori riadia, ka\u017edop\u00e1dne to ve\u013emi dehonestuje t\u00fdch, ktor\u00ed maj\u00fa tieto z\u00e1le\u017eitosti \u010dasovo posunut\u00e9. Alebo mo\u017eno ich ani nemusia ma\u0165 posunut\u00e9, len maj\u00fa ve\u013ek\u00fa smolu, \u017ee si nikoho nem\u00f4\u017eu n\u00e1js\u0165. Nedobrovo\u013en\u00fdch panien a panicov vo vy\u0161\u0161om veku je okolo v\u00e1s viac, ne\u017e ste mo\u017eno tu\u0161ili. Najvy\u0161\u0161\u00ed \u010das, aby sa trendu robi\u0165 z nich z\u00e1por\u00e1kov v kult\u00fare niekto postavil na odpor.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ve\u013emi trp\u00ed aj t\u00e9ma priate\u013estva, ktor\u00e9 som ja pova\u017eovala v\u017edy za d\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161\u00ed cit ne\u017e je romantick\u00e1 l\u00e1ska. No v knih\u00e1ch pre dospel\u00fdch sa mu venuje len \u017ealostne m\u00e1lo priestoru. V dobe LGBT o to viac, preto\u017ee z ka\u017ed\u00e9ho siln\u00e9ho priate\u013estva sa zrazu vyk\u013euje homosexu\u00e1lny vz\u0165ah. Ale <a href=\"https:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/?page_id=4448\">\u010dist\u00e9 priate\u013estv\u00e1 existuj\u00fa<\/a> a ja chcem o nich \u010d\u00edta\u0165! Aj o ich strat\u00e1ch, ktor\u00e9 vedia by\u0165 asi rovnako bolestiv\u00e9 ako straty l\u00e1sky.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u010citatelia a div\u00e1ci z radov LGBT, teraz \u017eijete vo svojej \u00e9re. Neberiem v\u00e1m ju, u\u017eite si ju. Ale ja tu st\u00e1le sed\u00edm a \u010dak\u00e1m, kedy d\u00f4jde rad aj na moju men\u0161inu \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed v puberte rie\u0161ili \u00faplne in\u00e9 veci. Aby aj ostatn\u00fdm \u013eu\u010fom autori povedali, \u017ee je spr\u00e1vne, ke\u010f sexualita po\u010dk\u00e1, k\u00fdm sa na \u0148u bud\u00fa c\u00edti\u0165. \u017de nemaj\u00fa nijak\u00fd \u010dasov\u00fd deadline, dokedy sa musia s niek\u00fdm sp\u00e1rova\u0165, ak sa nechc\u00fa zmeni\u0165 na netvorov. Lebo svet je ove\u013ea pestrej\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e to, \u010do n\u00e1m ukazuje s\u00fa\u010dasn\u00e1 kult\u00fara. Nezab\u00fadajme, \u017ee aj d\u00faha je len mal\u00fdm v\u00fdrezom z cel\u00e9ho spektra elektromagnetick\u00e9ho \u017eiarenia. Zd\u00e1 sa v\u0161ak, \u017ee na odhalenie existencie (pre ostatn\u00fdch) nevidite\u013en\u00fdch \u010dast\u00ed jej spektra si e\u0161te hodn\u00fa chv\u00ed\u013eu po\u010dk\u00e1me.<\/p>\n<h2>Mohlo by v\u00e1s zauj\u00edma\u0165<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/?page_id=3959\">S\u00fa \u013eudsk\u00e9 charakteristiky previazan\u00e9?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/?page_id=3645\">Z\u00e1pory s\u00fa relat\u00edvne<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/?page_id=7229\">Ko\u013eko rozmerov m\u00e1 (ma\u0165) liter\u00e1rna postava?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/?page_id=5569\">Sedem neuverite\u013en\u00fdch kli\u0161\u00e9 post\u00e1v, ktor\u00e9 rad\u0161ej nep\u00ed\u0161te<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/?page_id=3663\">Sympatick\u00fd hrdina<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.adhara.sk\/?page_id=8016\">O mojich (ne)\u017eensk\u00fdch postav\u00e1ch<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Men\u0161iny to nemaj\u00fa \u013eahk\u00e9. Ve\u013ea \u013eud\u00ed z v\u00e4\u010d\u0161iny tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee by sa ich potrebami svet v\u00f4bec nemal zaobera\u0165, lebo s\u00fa men\u0161ina. Pr\u00edpadne svoju men\u0161inovos\u0165 len predstieraj\u00fa a v skuto\u010dnosti ani neexistuj\u00fa. Mnoho os\u00f4b m\u00e1 toti\u017e potrebu \u0161katu\u013ekova\u0165 si svet, zjednodu\u0161ova\u0165 ho a\u017e do absurdnej deform\u00e1cie, neveri\u0165 v em\u00f3cie, ktor\u00e9 pova\u017euj\u00fa za nespr\u00e1vne. 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